Even if you have the same flaws yourself, you believe those flaws aren’t so significant in your case. You may want your partner to lose weight because you believe they look less-than-appealing right now.
On the other hand, you may be obese, and yet, you may not believe you need to change or look better for your partner.
After all, you can give your lover more happiness only when you’re full of happiness yourself.
Being selfless in a relationship is a sign of unconditional love, but being too selfless can make even the nicest people take your niceness for granted! ] How can you tell if you’re being selfish in the relationship? If you’re too self centered and believe your needs are more important than everyone else’s needs, you’re probably a selfish person even if you don’t think so.
In the middle of a discussion with your lover, do you ever feel like you could give in, but choose not to give in only because you think it makes you appear weak?
After all, you have to understand that selfishness is more of a perspective than a matter of fact.
And in response, they’re hoping you’d do something nice for them too. And this simple confusion could lead to your partner believing you’re selfish or too self centered.
If your partner calls you selfish, and can’t really explain themselves to you, chances are, they’re just craving for your attention!
Use these 12 signs and find out if you’re being selfish in your relationship. It could be something as simple as a chore or shopping for clothes together.
If only the things you enjoy excites you, but sharing your partner’s happiness from the things that they enjoy don’t matter to you, that’s a good sign that you’re a rather selfish person. Every time there’s a discussion about something to do or someplace to go to, do you usually end up getting things your way even if that means leaving your partner sad or less-than-happy?
[Read: The problems of making someone a priority when you’re only an option to them] Communication and selfishness If your partner ever accuses you of being selfish in the relationship, don’t hate them for it or get angry in return.