Unfortunately, kink dating is fraught with potential disaster.A good example is Collar Me, which is designed for bringing perverts together. If you're looking for a long term relationship, you don't want to get involved with someone who just cares about the sex.
Once you're sitting in front of her with the less-than- 15-percent hair loss that she's handicapped your photo for, then you can really get to know each other—as two hormone-leaking, masochistic adults who want so badly to be in love again._—Mary H. Choi _You want to say you're an oenophile or fluent in Klingon? The beauty of online dating is that it's stocked with people on the ends of the bell curve—the kind you'd never find normally.So let your freak/geek/pedantic-wine-lover flag fly."My life is CRAZY.I have AMAZING friends who love to ski and drink too much Chablis!What's also quite nice is that if you sign up for their paid service, A-List, you can actually order your search results by kinkiness. So, armed with this information, you can pick and choose who you contact.Now, there's no need to bring up that you're kinky and look like a sex pest - mention it on your profile so that they can see what you're into, and qualify it by explaining at you're not just after a play partner in the same paragraph.The point here is that eventually, you're going to talk about sex, and that's absolutely brilliant.