Dutch dating etiquette


Finding love is a challenging quest even in your home country.

Dating in The Netherlands will either make it more so or raise the chance to finally get the partner you've been looking for all along.

The Dutch were already internationally known as scrooges, and English rivalry with The Netherlands especially during the period of the Anglo-Dutch Wars gave rise to several phrases including Dutch that promote certain negative stereotypes.

Examples include Dutch courage, Dutch uncle and Dutch wife.

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I found a website with all kinds of experiences of foreign students in the Netherlands. If you think you have not made a 'stellar' match then you are most likely dating a typical dutchie. And they are stubborn so it is hard to work out a relationship issue if it involves any type of confrontation or compromise. And bluntness is a typical Dutch attitude (which is good for relationships: wouldn't you rather someone told you the truth than skirted it for an entire relationship? Thanks for standing up for your fellow males from the other side of the (little) pond, Kwalijkje.

These semi-hugs are usually accompanied by embarrassed pats on the back. Extra points if you’ve got your own mint plantation and can shove a few sprigs in a glass of hot water. We like to think the one biscuit story comes from the way most cafes give you a little cookie along with your coffee. However, if you want to impress your Dutch friends with how polite you are, liberally sprinkling your conversation with ‘please’ can work wonders. Appointments Don’t turn up unannounced at a friend’s and expect to be welcomed in with open arms.Kissing Of course, if you are female, expect to do a lot of kissing (three times).If you don’t like kissing your male colleagues, avoid the workplace in the days after New Year and on your birthday. Tea and coffee Always offer no matter what time of day or night it is.A stereotypical non-Catalan Spaniard would compete to invite the group.In Italy, the expression pagare alla romana can be translated as: "To pay like people of Rome" or "to pay like they do in Rome". Curiously, in South American countries exist the Spanish phrase pagar a la americana (literally "To pay American style") which refers to a treat attributed to North Americans or Canadians.The particular stereotype associated with this usage is the idea of Dutch people as ungregarious and selfish.

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