A few years back, I had what you might call a crisis.
I'm not going to bore you with all the details, but let's just say that my dating life was really empty.
FAST SUCCESS TIP #2: "Conversation Jump-Start" Have you ever been talking to a woman for a few minutes, and as the energy of the conversation starts to dip a little (right about where you are running out of things to say) she just looks back to her friends and turns her back to you?
I call this the "back turn," and it's one of those experiences guys hate more than anything.
I went for about a year without a girlfriend of any kind.
I was meeting the occasional girl, but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground.
If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is he safe? " For all she knows, you're just another dweeb looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.
Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words and actions) that you might be more challenging. Maybe you’re not just another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.
I'd ask guys what they were doing to get women interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. And the other cool thing is that when you know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat your successes. Here are a couple tips I learned along the way that will help you...You get that sick feeling of not just being ignored, but as well. Even though she didn't actually do it or say it out loud, you feel like she just laughed and called you a loser.Let me give you the best strategy you can use when you sense that this situation is coming up and you might lose her...(I think they call this "failure to launch.") I went out all the time and hung out with my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly ever get a phone number or date.And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys I asked myself that over and over again.Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.